Where does the time go?

Let me ask a question: would you rather live in a crappy, sub-par house but have life-giving, deep, meaningful relationships with those around you? Or would you rather live in a large, beautiful house, but have broken, draining relationships with those around you, leaving you feel unloved? If you're like me, you'd opt for #1. Now here is a question to think about: does your expenditure of time, energy, and thought reflect those priorities? Or does it reflect something else?